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Have you ever asked your self: ‘how can I make my relationship better and stronger’ even after discovering your partner is having an affair? This is one of the most difficult parts of any relationship because the moment it is discovered that a partner had an affair or is having one presently, the disgust, anger, the emotional turmoil, guilt, remorse and so on makes it quite hard for any reconciliation effort to work. There is usually emotionally charged atmosphere between the couple and lots of them find it difficult to reason normally so the end result is always separation in most cases.

You don’t have to split simply because your partner cheated on you. It has been established that couples that survived infidelity usually has better and stronger relationship. If this is the case, there must be something they do that majority don’t do.

The first thing is that if you want to make your relationship better and stronger after an affair, you have to give your partner some time and room to fully realize that what he or she did wasn’t the best for your relationship. Couples that survive infidelity tend not to act on impulse but take time to figure out what is good for them without minding the outside influences. If they decide to still stick to each other, they usually make up their minds to be very open to each other while being as free as they possible can on practically everything the do to regain the lost trust and confidence in their relationship.

The couple that survives infidelity takes time to discuss what caused the other to go else where and work within them to meet that which the other went to find somewhere else.

If I want to make my relationship better and stronger after infidelity, I will simply be very sympathetic to my partner if I am the one that cheated. I have to understand what my partner is passing through emotionally, be patient with them and work very hard to win their trust while determining never to loose such trust again.

If you have experienced infidelity in your relationship, it is time to try as much as possible to avoid anger or anything that will provoke. You are edgy emotionally already and it wouldn’t be good to get to something that will spark the fire that is rearing to burn inside you.

This may sound controversial or even unbelievable but if you are the cheated partner, you must be ready to ask your self where you went wrong or what actions you took that contributed to your partner’s unfaithfulness. There may be some things you do that push your lover to others arm. It may be quite difficult to admit but you have to thoroughly search your self and make amend if you discover any loophole from your end.

Be willing to forgive you partner and be ready to share the emotional turmoil you went through. This will help to make your ailing partner ‘see’ the deeper hurt he or she caused for you.

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