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Why Opinion Opener Pick Up Lines May Not Be The Best


A lot of guys, especially new guys to the game seem to gravitate towards the most famous indirect pick up line, the opinion opener. Originally designed to enter a group situation under the radar they dont often lead too much else beyond some throw away opinion and small talk. It then becomes necessary to use DHV stories that in some environments, like a loud club, can be hard to pull off.

While they do work they can often come off try hard. The only way around that is to have all your sub,communications internalized and genuinely be interested in the opinion youre asking. The other issue is even though you may think youre being indirect asking a group an opinion they most likely know your real intent. When it comes to social situation women are usually smarter than men. They are a safe way to meet people, but safe is also usually the territory of the nice guy.

Situational pick up lines are maybe a step above but they can backfire as well. Sometimes you may think you noticed something really unique, or funny or witty but chances are the girls heard it before and thus will be turned off by your transparency. Other times it can be hard to come up with a good line in the moment. The irregularity of your opener can make it hard to gauge your progress and like opinion openers can often times get you stuck in a conversation that has no sexual intent.

It may be helpful to tease out the presuppositions that have lead to the preponderance of opinion openers. The general theory is you can subvert a womans bitch shield that she throws up when average guys try to approach her. It buys you time to run your attraction routines and not get blown out. But lets say women love to get hit on albeit by high value guys. Following that a woman doesnt raise a bitch shield because of the pick up but because the guy doing it subcoms bad, low value traits. But a woman will always be receptive to a high value guy.

Guys with no confidence and low self will gravitate to opinion pick up lines as a ruse to gain favor from a woman. Its a vicious cycle these guys put themselves in. They know they need to be higher value and demonstrate that to gain attraction but they sub,com low value and exacerbate it by using opinion openers.

A guy out with a lot of women will notice a strange thing. Sets will open left and right. Why? You have established pre,selection. High value. You can open with anything at this point and it will seemingly work. Same thing if youre at a club with a large group of people. Sets open easier.

Now when youre out before you deliver your pick up line frame the interaction like this in your mind: even if you dont have women around you can still possess the value that displays. This can be done through opening by using an opener that seeks to give value rather than take it, that displays the behavior a high value male would display when he approached a group. Because you are demonstrating that you are high value she will want you to stay when you do this.

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