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Why is My Boyfriend Acting the Way He is – 5 Insights


If you really think your boyfriend is right for you but you are always asking yourself, “Why is my boyfriend acting the way he is,” you need to find out the truth about why he does what he does. For example, you need to find ways to get some space for yourself, figure out how to interact with him in a way that preserves your own sanity, and at the same time helps rekindle his love for you.

Learning how to do this is not hard, but it does take some careful planning in order to get the results you are after. Here are 5 insights into how to figure him out and get what you need out of your relationship:

1 – Even though doing so may go against every fiber of your being, if your boyfriend is really acting up it is probably wise to distance yourself from him for a while. Try toning down the frequency and depth of communication between the two of you for a while. This is not going to be easy – and you will likely resist doing this on many levels. Still, a bit of time apart could make him realize how much he really cares about you. This first step is one of the most important parts of your plan.

2 – Give yourself some time to feel better about yourself. You need to find your balance and remember your own true self – who you really are. To regain his interest and get him to stop acting inappropriately, you first need to be grounded yourself; you have to calm yourself emotionally. Most importantly, you must not come across as being desperate or acting like you cannot live without him: acting this way can really be a relationship killer and will turn off almost any man. Once you are again centered, move on to step 3.

3 – Try showing some harmless attention to another man. Make it subtle, and make sure your boyfriend knows you would never actually cheat on him. You may find this hard to do, especially if you do not have eyes for other men. However, this is a very effective tactic in making your boyfriend straighten up and fly right.

4 – You need to act in a nonchalant way around him – slightly disinterested. If his recent strange behavior comes a bit from trying to play with you or mess with your head, you do not want to fall into that trap. Instead, cheer up and do not show him that his actions are affecting you. While of course you should not lie – you by all means should be true to your feelings – it is also very important not to show him too much drama. Like acting desperate (see Step 3), acting too dramatic in the face of his strange behavior is a sure turn-off for most men.

5 – Continue to keep yourself as physically attractive as possible around him. Ask a girlfriend or trusted co-worker what your best assets are (e.g., hair, certain part of your body, your eyes, etc.) and do everything you can to accentuate that part of your looks. It is likely that your boyfriend is attracted to that part of you, among others. If you let yourself go physically, you are signaling to him that you are out of touch with what turns him on about you. On the other hand, if you strut your stuff (without going over the top), he will know that you know what you got and how to use it. That will turn him on and make him feel even more attracted to you.

These are some insights that have worked for me in getting my boyfriend to stop acting strangely and start taking me more seriously. To be honest, these are not my own, original ideas. Rather, I found some really smart love gurus who shared their hard-won secrets on how to get men to stop playing games and start treating their girlfriends with respect.

want to get him to fly right and start respecting you again? learn sure-fire advice from the same love gurus who taught me at: www.in-his-arms-again.com

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