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When Your Present Love Has Gone Sour


There are really times when your relationship with your current partner is going sour. This usually happens when you are now over with the dating game. You and your partner is now going steady for more than 5 months and in this stage, a relationship is usually tested in terms of commitment. If this is the case, what are the things you can possibly do to resolve this “love” gap?

If you feel there is coldness between you and your partner, it is best to give him/her space. There are things that each individual is experiencing at a certain stage in a relationship. It is best to let them be and think things over.

In order to get yourself pre-occupied while your partner is finding his/her own space alone, below are suggestions you can do:

– Hang out with your friends and relatives. You can hang out with your loved ones and also try to talk to them of your current problem. They can help you out and can divert your attention to many activities while you are trying to resolve the problem.

– Make yourself busy by doing what you love. Hobbies can occupy your time. You can do your favorite leisure activities or just spend time being creative, This will also help you feel better

– Do a makeover. Change is something that will make you happy too. You can recreate your room or change your fashion statement or redo your hair. There are many things you can do while your partner is away.

In addition to the activities you can do while you are away with your partner, you can also list down the changes that have happened between the two of you. So when your partner is now prepared to open his/her feelings at the recent situation, you can also point to him/her the things that have changed in time. This way, you can resolve the problems if there are any.

Do not ever email, call or visit your partner while he/she is spending some time alone. It is best to just leave him/her first to think things over. Wait for him/her to contact you and consult you of what is bothering with him/her lately. But if he/she does not contact you within sometime, say a month or so, then you know that the relationship is over.

In this stage of relationship, it is really frustrating to see that your partner is having second thoughts about you. But it would be best to just give him/her more time and space to think. Do not beg him/her of loving you or promising to be a better man or woman.

It may be difficult to adjust if the relationship has already ended but there are many good reasons for you to just accept and move on. There are certainly people out there who are also looking for someone to love again. It is just a matter of time for you to realize that there is someone better for you too.

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