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What If She Has A Boyfriend? A Question Guys Should Not Be …


Guys take it all wrong when deciding to approach a girl or not. The usual excuse why they hesitate is that the girl may already have a boyfriend. Honestly, it does not really matter whether a girl is already committed or not. Why? Well, you will never know what really happens next when you try and engage yourself into a conversation with a girl.

When you find someone attractive, do not think and hesitate just approach her right away. Attraction is innate and you should not try to make lame excuses or even questioning if she has a boyfriend or not. Approaching someone you are attracted to even if a girl is committed is already a big achievement. In addition, practice makes you a better person, right?

As said before, it does not really matter whether a girl is committed or not because you will never know what happens if you have not even try. Probably, if a girl already has a boyfriend, they may be experiencing relationship problems that may require someone to finally make up her mind to find someone. This usually happens and I have girl friends that experienced the same exact thing.

So the best thing to do is to set aside the boyfriend dilemma and just get your act on by assuming that the girl has a boyfriend. This way, you will feel less angst when you finally found out the whole truth. But do not ever ask her if really has a boyfriend. Just approach her and try to find hints while you are conversing with her.

When you finally start conversing with her, the “boyfriend” topic will surface on one way or the other without you even asking for it. If she does not say anything about a boyfriend, try to ask her daily weekend routines. Those who have boyfriends usually have regular weekend dates.

So what if she has a boyfriend? Well, just try to convince her to stay with you for conversation and if she is interested, it really does not matter if she has a boyfriend or not. If you popped up the question of getting her number and refused because she has a boyfriend, do not look disappointed. You will just put burden to the girl by acting that way. Instead, try to be funny. For example, “Oh, does he mind?” or “Do you think he knows you’re talking to cute guys when he is not around?”.

The goal here is to make her laugh at the same time showing her that you are cool and is not affected with the declaration. Being funny also posts many advantages. For one, she may even introduce you to one of her single friends because you are a nice and funny guy.

Do not even turn your back to approaching a girl you are attracted to. Trying does not give you any down side. The thing here is to be creative and positive all the way by not turning your back. In time, you will likely fell into finding your dream girl.

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