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Believe it or not, at times separation is the only solution to a troubled marriage. Instead of quarreling over petty matters day in and day out, it is better to get separated peacefully. For this, couples usually seek marital separation advice and after making a firm decision, they hire a divorce attorney or a divorce lawyer. However, according to many separation advisors, the basic reason why couples seek separation is that they cannot stand the annoying habits of their spouses. If you really think about the matter, it is not such a big deal.

Almost every couple has to bear some annoying habits of their spouses. Initially, people think someone to be a perfect match, only to find out that they were wrong upon living together. Sometimes it is your spouse’s thunderous snores, stinky feet or perhaps his careless eating habits that drive you nuts. No matter what the habit is, you can learn to accept that as a part of your life. There is nothing better than to honor our vows of marriage. So, here goes some ways to strengthen your relationship by accepting your partner the way he/she is:

• First and foremost is to communicate with your spouse straight out about the habits that annoy you. Speak kindly about all those habits that annoy you, and be prepared to listen as well. Usually habits are not thought out as they tend to be unintentional. So by letting the other person know, you can call out his/her attention. This way understanding one another and co-existing becomes a much easier task.

• At times, you get annoyed by your spouse unnecessarily. Probably you do not like your spouse leaving unfinished chores. But do not jump to a conclusion all of a sudden. There might be some reason or he/she simply did not have time to do it. Do not make a fuss about it every time. You will get a better idea if you put yourself in his/her shoes. This is simply not a good enough reason to get annoyed.

• If you have a good sense of humor, you will be able to find something to laugh about in your spouse’s annoying habits. You may still get annoyed, but by seeing the funny side, you will learn to accept that habit of your partner.

• Even changing your focus might just help you from getting annoyed. Try to forget about the habit that annoys you and look for a perspective in the personality of your spouse that does not irritate you. By focusing on some worthy qualities, you may well be able to the annoying ones.

• After letting your partner know about the habits that affect you, do not repeat the topic over and over again. Try to minimize criticism and learn to hold your tongue. This is best to maintain a healthy relationship.

Looking for keys to a happy married life? Well technically, the only key is patience. Once you have that, consider your married life a big success.

Stewart Wrighter has spent time with a Las Vegas divorce attorney researching an article on the subject. He hired a Las Vegas divorce lawyer to join his law firm.

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