Welcome, visitor! [ Register | Loginrss

Top 5 Worst Places to Go on a Date


I’m sure all of you guys — who are totally hip on researching how to woo the woman of your dreams – know where to take a woman on a date. But do you know where not to take a woman on a date? By doing an informal survey of all my good buddies, we’ve come up with the five worst places to go on a date. Drum roll, please:

1. Your ex-girlfriend’s work. I don’t care if she is a waitress at the hottest, trendiest, most hip delicious restaurant in town. Steer very clear of this place. I would even go so far as to suggest you find a spot as far across town from there as possible.

2. Your parent’s house. If anything can scare a woman away faster it is the psycho guy who wants to introduce you to his parents right away. Plus unless your parents are the coolest people on the planet, chances are that is the biggest turnoff you could find. Nothing squashes attraction more than mom squeezing in between you two on the couch to watch Wheel of Fortune.

3. Dinner at a restaurant. This is a no no for many reasons. Unless you are a couple and have been dating for months, avoid going out to dinner. Period. Here is why. Two reasons. One: it is outdated and old fashioned and makes you look like an old fogey. Nobody goes on dinner dates anymore. At least not when they are just beginning to date. Two: There is way too much pressure on a dinner date. The guy is pissed because he spends a lot of money on the girl and expects a return on his investment. The girl is pissed because he spent a lot of money on her and expects a return on his investment.

4. A movie. Again, this is a dud for a few reasons. Number one: Did you see #3 above? Going on a date to a movie when you’ve just met someone is outdated, old fashioned and makes you look like an old fogey. Nobody takes a date to the movies anymore. Other reasons: Number two: It is boring. It makes you appear boring and unoriginal and unable to think of anything better to do. Three: You have zero chance to talk and create rapport while you are watching a movie. Bad idea. The goal of a date is to create rapport and get to know one another by sharing yourself through conversation.

5. Going to listen to your best friend’s crappy band rehearse in some dingy warehouse that is freezing and where there is no seating and nothing to drink. OK, first off, your best friend’s band sucks. It might be different if you are best friends with Jason Mrz or Lady Gaga or something. Then, by all means take her to the damn rehearsal and she’s yours for life. Otherwise, pretty much anywhere you take her would be better than listening to bad music. Oh maybe, not, probably worse than band rehearsal would be a video game tournament at your friend’s house where everyone sits at different computers networked to each other.

Bill has been teaching men How to Get a Girlfriend for the last 5 years in NYC and is a pick up artist who can help you learn to do the same. The original article can be found here: Top 5 Worst Places to Go on a Date.

Related posts:

  1. A Successful First Date Top Tips One of the reasons why first dates can be tricky is the because of the pressure we put on ourselves under to create a good impression. If we can relax then we can stop thinking about what to say next; we can pay attention to what our date is saying. How cool is that? Here […]…
  2. Top Seven Worst Gift Ideas For Your Groomsmen Men are not usually a picky bunch. They’d normally love to receive any gift you present them with as long as they know it comes from the heart. But even then, future brides and grooms should still take care when selecting the gifts for their groomsmen. Here are some ideas of what you should NOT […]…
  3. Do You Feel Like Every Date Is The Same Dinner, movies, and then a good night kiss. Do you feel bored by dating because you feel as though every date will simply be a carbon copy of the rest? You don’t need to feel bored by dating, instead you should look forward to the process of dating and going out and having fun. You […]…
  4. First Date Ideas – Top 5 Ways to Have a More Memorable … If you always go to the same places for first dates, searching for your one true love can start to feel a bit monotonous and, if you’re getting a bit fed up with the same old scenery, that can come across as indifference to the person you are dating. While the usual options of coffee […]…
  5. 5 First Dating Tips of Places You Must Avoid So you’ve met a girl. She’s cute, she’s flirty and she’s agreed to go on a date with you. That’s great news – but where are you going to go? At this point, all you’re thinking about is spending an evening in her company. Perhaps you’re hoping to spend the night. You certainly haven’t thought […]…
  6. Blind Date vs Internet Date Your friend has decided that you need help with your social life so she sets you up with a blind date….a friend of a friend of a friend. You, foolishly, accept. Now there you are. It’s less than one hour since you were introduced. You are sitting in a Thai restaurant and you hate Thai […]…
  7. Dating Tips – Top 10 Don’ts For a First Date Most of us know the basic dating rules, like the importance of looking smart, showing an interest in your date and paying them the odd compliment. However, it’s sometimes harder to know if you’re on the wrong tracks when dating – here are the top 10 dating mistakes to steer clear of. 1) Don’t be […]…
  8. The Key to the Perfect First Date Most men struggle when coming up with ideas on where to take a woman they just met. Most men think they are required to take their date to dinner and a movie. Taking a girl to the movies is the worst move because you sit there for two or more hours not talking. Not only […]…
  9. Most Unusual Places To Meet Beautiful Women For the absolute betterment of society, women are in fact, everywhere. There isn’t a single place you can go on your daily routine that you aren’t bound to see some very attractive women. Unless of course you spend your time in gentlemen only clubs and in that case, well, never mind. Women are a true […]…
  10. Mistakes Men Make On The First Date The number one mistake made by men on the first date is trying to buy love. The first date is not a marriage proposal; it’s merely an opportunity to measure compatibility. If it doesn’t work out, you will have spent all that cash on a fancy restaurant and red roses for nothing. Unfortunately, the IRS […]…

76 total views, 1 so far today

  


Listed: December 4, 2011 12:03 am