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The Simple Secret to a Woman’s Heart


Have you ever been somewhere when you see what appears to be the most unlikely couple where maybe a physically undesirable man is with a physically desirable woman who is hanging from his arm and seems to be madly in love with him? Almost immediately the thought may run through your mind, “How in the world did he get her?” The answer will almost always be a simple one . . . success. This seemingly “unattractive” man given his physical appearance is in reality a highly desirable catch to a woman . . . because as the odds dictate, he is most likely “monetarily successful.”

Each passing generation of man, just like animals, passes on a recipe for success. Social Darwinism is alive and well, even in today’s culture. A woman has a relatively low ceiling compared to a man when it comes to the amount of children a woman could theoretically rear or produce in a lifetime. Therefore, a woman wants the man who either is the biological father, or the man who will raise the child, to offer something uniquely separate from other men, and that is, she wants her baby or babies to have EVERY opportunity possibly offered to a person in the society. Of course this is a gross generalization of the entire gender, but most mothers’ number one desire in life is to have great opportunities offered to their children.

This dramatic generalized principle is important because it vastly improves an individual’s perception of the world around them. It also allows men to better focus on the specific thing they want most . . . women. Women not only want a man that is successful but they most often will also accept a man who has a great potential for success. Through the lens of this perspective, so much of what men do is to attract a woman. Take for example a man who has little interest in going to college and would do just fine working an eight to five job building homes making enough to live, eat, buy man toys and support his vices. But then consider that this same man has a desire for an attractive woman and she does not consider his job as being successful and will not be attracted to him unless he goes to college. Good chance the man will go to college.

Another example can be illustrated by the true story of John and Jane. John is an all around incredible man who has so much to offer in ways of great looks, personality, morality, etc. John falls madly in love with Jane who is an equally incredible woman and desires little more than to have him marry her. The problem is, as great as she realizes he is, she for some reason cannot commit to marrying him. Well, as we could have guessed given the success principle, John’s simple solution was for him to figure out his finances, get a realtor, and purchase a nice piece of real estate or a simple home in the quiet suburbs of Arizona. The home was a mental trigger of success in Jane’s mind, and within a month, after two years of this man diligently trying to woo the woman, she suddenly falls madly in love with him and realized she could never live without him.

As a brief summary, women in general are deeply and instinctually attracted to a man’s success, realized or potential, more than any other attribute a man may posses. As a basic applicable principle, a man buying real estate will sling shot himself up several levels in his attractiveness. The best thing a man can do is live his life in a way to be able to purchase a home.

Juhlin Youlien is a source on how to get great Chandler AZ homes for sale and Gilbert AZ homes for sale. He also writes about Fountain Hills AZ real estate and Tempe AZ homes for sale.

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