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The Right Way to Compliment a Woman


The majority of men do not know how to compliment a woman. I would say that 9 out of 10 men get it dead wrong. They have no clue how to really make a woman feel special. And that one guy, who does, stands out from the crowd and has a much better chance of getting a woman to go out with him.

Do you know how to compliment a woman? When most men are asked this, they immediately, without even thinking about it, tell the woman she is beautiful or pretty or gorgeous or stunning or something along those lines. The first thing men think of when they want to give a woman a compliment is to comment on her appearance.

Biologically this makes perfect sense for men, who are programmed to attract a mate by how that mate looks. We men are made to be attracted to a woman physically, so naturally this is the first thing we notice and like about a woman we first meet.

However, to a woman, this is a boring, not meaningful compliment. I mean, sure the girl likes to hear that, but if she is an attractive woman she’s heard it hundreds of times before. You are just one of the masses who are saying the same thing and you just blend into the crowd to her. It doesn’t matter if you try to use original language, such as telling her she looks stupendous or smashing or something different than the normal “gorgeous” and “pretty” you still are saying the same old thing.

So do you want the secret to how to compliment a woman and stand out from the crowd and how to actually get her attention and possible intrigue her? The trick is to find something about her that is unique and that shows what type of person she is inside or recognizes some effort she has made to look attractive. Find something that you like that is not something she was born with, not some natural endowment or reflection of God-given beauty.

It’s the difference between complimenting her on her cornflower blue eyes (“Yawn. Boring. Heard this a million times,” she thinks.) And complimenting her on the way her cashmere sweater brings out the blue of her eyes. A simple, subtle yet important difference.

She chose that sweater for a reason. And yes even though she has heard her eye color is beautiful a million times that doesn’t mean she didn’t pick that sweater to emphasize that color and have someone notice them. So by doing this you are validating her efforts and what is inside of her.

Another great compliment is to tell her you love her laugh, or her energy or her wit or something about her that is not physical at all, but that reflects who she is inside.

It may take a little bit of time to come up with a compliment that is genuine and sincere and it may take you spending a little time getting to know her, but it will be worth it. You will be that one guy in 100 who gets it and gets her.

Bill has been studying how to be a pick up artist for the last 5 years in NYC and can help you learn how to pick up women and how to get a girlfriend . The original article can be found here: How to Compliment a Woman.

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