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During the process of surviving a breakup almost inexplicably shock-waves can rip through you both physically and mentally, causing very uneasy feelings in your heart, mind and spirit. It really stinks! Unfortunately, many turn towards acts of self-destruction such as drugs, alcohol and plotting revenge to deal with their pain. That is not the way to go!

Listen up! I feel you as you are taking on some darn serious waves of mental anguish and torment that at times can seem incomprehensible! I mean, really, how can it feel as bad as it does? I have been there my friend and got the official t-shirt to prove it!

However, someone pointed me in the right direction on how to navigate through surviving a breakup and doing it in a positive way and in a way that helped me to grow and become more as a person. In other words, I channeled what normally would have been super negative energy into something that would either benefit me or someone else.

** When engaged in a new adventure, a hobby or a rescue mission helping people, this can remove your thoughts from the overwhelming presence of your relationship issues because your focus is on doing things that benefit you or serving others who need you.

This is powerful! The growth and the satisfaction that you receive from this is immense and can be intense!

Normally, the standard mode of operation is to roll around in misery and live with a self-defeated mentality. Come on, that is not going to benefit you or anyone else!

** God made you with this whole huge list of powerful talents and abilities that you can put into helping others right now. You can end up changing their lives for the better; now guess what happens to yours? Bingo!

Hey, all of this is about learning how to heal your broken heart while surviving a breakup that has practically ripped you to shreds!

** Another thing you can do is study a relationship building e-book! The information contained inside a jewel such as this will help you to pinpoint and identify weaknesses in your relationship and you will even learn how to repair the damage of the breakup; if that is your dream.

** Oh yeah, and one more thing about healing your heart… you would do best if you killed the music stations with all of those songs singing about love forever. Your brain and your heart can not deal with that stuff at this point in time. If you do listen to it, just triple the amount of time for your recovery and it most likely will not happen in a positive way.

Truth be told, I want for you to have great success in your efforts! I want your story to be one of encouragement and learning for others who are going through this same kind of garbage!

Surviving a breakup and coming out at the end better than when you went in is possible, but you must choose to take the better higher road in order to make that happen!!

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