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Relationships; Little Things That Keep The Love Alive!


At the beginning of a new relationship most of us will go out of our way to impress our new love. We do all the little things that we believe will make us more appealing and we strive to make the new person in our life feel special in every way. But oftentimes we lose touch with that desire to please. Perhaps it is due to life being busy or maybe we simply begin taking that special someone for granted. Whatever the reason, if this has happened to you then it is time to freshen and renew those actions, it really is the little things that keep the love alive in a relationship!

You might want to think back to some of the things that you did in the beginning to ignite the flames of desire in your partner. I am referring to the flames of desire for a relationship with you. Perhaps you make it a point to end each night by proclaiming your love for one another and embracing in a meaningful hug and kiss. And now maybe you simply say goodnight and go to bed. Consider how and why that changed.

In the beginning you probably called each other just to say hello. If you have lost touch with that incredible feeling then work on getting it back. Even if you have to remind yourself to do it, in the end it will pay off. Your relationship will grow through the little things.

Many times the changes come due to lifestyle changes. This could be the birth of a child or a job change. It could be related to a health issue. The important thing is to work toward making changes for the betterment of your relationship.

Some people love surprises. If that describes your significant other then plan a surprise. Do not stress, this does not have to be a major ordeal. It can be as simple as a surprise card that expresses your love. It could be a surprise date or a small gift.

Another way to surprise him or her is by writing a letter that is from your heart or even a quick note that simply says ‘I love you’. Place that in a spot that you know they will find; perhaps in with her make up or in his sock drawer.

Consider the things he or she likes. This could be a collectible, a sport, or even something such as a massage or a manicure. Maybe dinner by candle light would be a nice change of pace. After you have a few ideas work on ways to provide them for him or her.

By doing small things that let him or her know that you care you will be strengthening the bonds between you. It really is important to customize your approaches to what would be meaningful to that special someone. What I mean is, if you decide to shop for a gift for him or her, strive to find something that will be loved by that person. Here is an example of what I mean, some of us are into jewelry and others are not. You could spend thousands of dollars on a piece of jewelry when what your partner would really like is a quiet dinner with you, or even candles and some nice bath oil.

The point is that you need to make it about the other person, not about the action. Along the same lines is the idea of respect and consideration for his/her feelings. Consider the way you treat him or her. If you do not treat them with respect you can easily see that you are not doing your part to make the relationship strong. Everyone wants and deserves respect. This includes respect for them as a person and respecting their likes and dislikes.

Whatever you do be sure to make time for the two of you. If your time is limited then let him or her know that it is important to you to define special time that will be set aside for only the two of you. Many couples find that by having a ‘date night’ each week they are able to keep their love strong and growing. This night may or may not mean leaving the home.

Start with small things; as you find things that work really well then you can build on them. Relationships require effort, but even the strongest relationships can be built on a budget. Give of yourself and your relationship will be strong!

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debbie allen is an internet marketer writer.

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