Welcome, visitor! [ Register | Loginrss

Learn The Art Of Chatting To Women


When it comes to chatting up a woman, open ended questions are excellent conversation starters. You can stand there and make yourself look characterless with your boring interrogation that has a yes or no answer, or you can get the woman excited about talking to you. Creating pleasurable conversation is a lot harder than it appears if you’re not used to it. And it can be more difficult if you’re not used to chatting to women.

It’s a cliche to ask a woman, “Do you come here often?” If however, you’re trying to get this woman riveted in you right from the beginning these are the types of questions you should be avoiding. Any question that needs a yes or no answer is going to create a silence. That silence will grow into something that will have to be broken with another uncommunicative question.

With a inquiry as atrocious as that one you’ll also be lucky if she can be bothered to answer it. You could even get a sneer as she turns her back on you.

The perfect beginning to any communication is an open ended question, it’s a question that creates more questions from its answer. Instead of starting your question with a do, start your question with where, what or how. This forces her to answer the question with a real answer as an alternative to yes or no. This can then lead to another question if the answer offers you that opportunity.

Instead of using the do you come here often line, you can get some conversation going with something else.

If you can see your potential date isn’t enjoying herself as much as she could be, you can ask, “how often do you come to this dump?” If she really isn’t having fun, not only have you asked a great conversation starter but you’ve shown you’re paying attention, and know exactly what’s going through her mind. This type of question also throws a bit of humor into the conversation straight away.

If you’re beginning to get on with her you can propose a more exciting place for your first date.

If you start speaking with women regularly you will learn naturally what type of open ended questions work for you, and what questions need to be avoided. Once you get your questions ready before you start speaking you can have the next questions ready for the variety answers you get.

Communicating successfully with women does take a bit of practice if you’re not used to doing it on a regular basis. It can be a challenge sometimes especially if you have the outcome in your head before you start chatting.

The more experience you get the better you will become, and the questions will sound a lot more natural. This stops them looking like you’re struggling for questions just to create a conversation.

A lot of women will get approached by men every time they go out, especially if they’re stunning. Learn to understand what the woman wants in the conversation. Have a different approach to what 90% of men do when they just try to impress her. Show an interest in her, and talk about the topics she likes to talk about. This is a quality you’ll understand more as you gain experience, but the more you go out of your way to understand these things the more successful your dating will be.

if you want more dating tips you can visit double your dating or if you want tips on meeting women online you can visit – online dating tips for men

Related posts:

  1. Call Women With Confidence You just went out the night before. Saw the most beautiful women in the world, walked up to them, got their number, and now you are ready to call them. I am sure there was a lot more work involved in getting their number, but for the purposes of this article we are going to […]…
  2. Learn How To Pick Up Women Easily If you are a single, straight guy who struggles to find the girls, have you ever found yourself irritated by those men who always seem to attract women. You know that they are no more attractive then you, they are not richer than you and yet you are always the one who goes home alone. […]…
  3. Art of Seduction-Crash Course in Seducing Women! If you are going out this weekend and you are planning something extra for your date, then read the following very carefully. This is a crash course in seducing women. You might think that this is simple but bare in mind that a woman is more complicated than a man. Unfortunately, it takes more effort […]…
  4. How To Meet Great Women In Bars Today I want to share with everyone a great question I got from someone in London. I’m sure all of you think about these same things when you go out at night too, so let’s talk about this right now! Client: I have two questions for you. You said that when you open someone in […]…
  5. Free Internet Dating Site – Tips For Women And Join … Even if women join free internet dating today, you can get complete assistance in dating with the person you want to. Be sure of finding the right person! Read on to know more tips on joining free sites. People join a free internet dating site for fun, making new friends and relationships. Be it a […]…
  6. Tips For Chatting On A Chat Room For Disabled People So you have looked at the disabled personals and you have also gone out on a number of dates. Do you think there is any way you can find your potential mate among all the dates? Do you think your dates are suitable for you? Or are they unsuitable for you? Regardless of what others […]…
  7. Discover How To Meet And Attract Older Women Lets face it, some things just get better with age. Things like fine wine, Cuban cigars, and yes, even women! Meeting a woman whos older than you can actually be quite a good way to meet a fantastic partner. Usually, older women are much more experienced, not only in relationships, but also in the bedroom. […]…
  8. How Women Test Men Women, girls, babes or not-so-hot babes all behave the same. You, as a man, will always be tested and there is no place you can run and hide. Instead of turning these ladies down all the time, learn how to turn these challenges into a fantastic opportunity for you to show your manly power and […]…
  9. Four Mistakes To Avoid When Seducing Women If you are new to the dating game or are a single guy who has not had the best luck in attracting women then you this article is for you. There are many ways to impress a woman when you first meet them and it is definitely true that first impressions count. For this reason […]…
  10. Best Conversations Starters How To Initiate Conversations … It doesn’t matter how great your pick-up line is, it can only get you so far. A funny joke and a cocky smile might get a girl’s attention but if you don’t know how to continue the conversation there’s not much point in starting it. Even the wittiest of one liners followed by an awkward […]…

349 total views, 1 so far today

  


Listed: September 2, 2008 1:53 pm