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Keeping Your Man – Simply Conversate with Us


It’s typically necessary to have to tell us things, in basic plain English, then it’ll the idea will be communicated to the partner. But unfortunately, if you’re not telling us, we won’t know, so tell us. Don’t just assume we’re going to suddenly pick up mind-reading. When you finally decide to communicate with your men, then it’s best to not just run into the situation, but to give it some thought.

Here are some things to keep in mind:

– What the subject is

– Both you and his mood

– The general temperament of your mate.

If the conversation is something difficult to discuss, especially for him, then maybe you should really think about what you say before you say it. Perhaps even practice speaking about it with a close friend or relative first, hopefully someone who knows both you and him. Believe it or not, what you are saying might be coming out all wrong, or might be easy to misunderstand.

If you are angry about something, try to wait instead of immediately announcing this fact while still angry. Approaching your man when you’re upset will result in a argument. Verbal attack makes men defensive, and anything you’re trying to communicate won’t come out as clear as you’d like. Also, if he’s the one on attack-mode, or just negative, it’s best to wait until we settles down before trying to keep pressing the issue.

Every guy is different, most people are already aware, but this also applies to ones temperament. Even in stressful situations, some guys are very relaxed. And there are others that are angered over nothing. You already know how your man is, so make sure you keep that in mind when trying to argue or mention any kind of hot topic. Listen Usually, women are more talkative than men, it’s just the way they are. However, men end up not speaking and expressing enough in comparison. Sometimes your mate venting about his day is a must, or he may have something else on his mind that’s just bothering him, and he needs someone to express it to.

If this is the case, be patient, and be a good listener, especially at that critical moment. If you don’t even want to hear about his day, or work, you still need to take some time to do so, if you truly care about your relationship. And you don’t have to say anything, no opinion or commentary can be the best way to deal with what he’s saying. A lot of people forget that, but you don’t need to speak about it, just listen, and maybe just genuinely care about what they are speaking about, and mention that you’re always there to support him and whatever he decides to do, and you’re always there to listen.

Whether a guy or a girl, everybody needs to realize that their partner is there for you in all possible ways, and if you need to talk, they will be there to listen. Feedback Is your man unconcerned with what you have to add? Does he not respect your feedback or does he ridicule you for it? Then you need a new man, hopefully we don’t have any readers tolerating that kind of behavior.

Someone normal would actually like hearing what you have to say. If he’s smart he’ll know that’s important to take it into consideration. Nobody is perfect, and sometimes a female perspective on a situation can really help. Men who are worth your time really want to hear your view on things, and they honestly are concerned with what you think.

Whether your mate agrees with you is another issue, but what’s important is that your mate cares about your thoughts. Showing interest in each other is key. If you genuinely dislike something he’s done, think about a nice way of bringing that across, maybe tips instead of criticism? Any guy who’s worth your time will be happy to hear what you have to say.

chris jensen is a contributing author of jetfly blog. for more related articles and views visit jetfly marriage

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