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Jealousy Problems: Does it Destroy Love?


The answer to that question is that yes, literally jealousy can destroy love in a relationship. This applies to both the jealous person and the victim of the jealousy as this destructive emotion has the power to damage and break up a relationship. Insecurity is the root of jealous feelings and these feelings can be very addictive as well as full of powerful, raw emotions.

Jealousy problems frequently happen to two people in a relationship. And if the issue is not addressed early on in the relationship, typical control issues and problems may start when accusations based on real or imagined suspicious behavior by the other partner. These worries blossom could blossom into an obsessive type of jealousy that creates problems with both partners if the issues are not addressed right away.

When there is the threat of losing a loved one many people let go of rational thought and dive deep into very powerful emotions they can’t always control. These emotions are extreme anger, fear of losing control, and unhealed pain from past losses. Some of it is also learned behavior experienced while growing up with family such as parents or relatives. Whatever the case may be, these untamed emotions hurt and frighten both the jealous person and the person that is the victim of the jealousy.

The negative association to jealousy is that it hurts and destroys the love between two people in relationship. Most people in a committed relationship love each other and do not want to destroy that special bond and love between each other. Remember: jealousy is not proof that a relationship is built on love. The addictive feeling can literally take over a relationship so that one of the partners begins to lose love and desire for the other partner. There is nothing positive and no good can come from angry, controlling behavior except that in the long run, both partners will eventually break up as a result—if the jealousy problems are not addressed.

When you think that your partner has gone overboard in accusations that seem overly suspicious or paranoid, it’s time the you seek professional help. It’s common that the jealous person may focus on being over possessive that has paranoid and suspicious accusations that going along with it. If your partner will not go, then you should make an appointment for yourself first. An experienced counselor or psychologist that deal with relationships will be able to help you. As a prospective client, interview the counselor first—if they do not seem to have a good grasp of your situation, keep trying to find someone else you can resonate with.

Many average relationships will experience some healthy insecurity and anxiety issues that is normal and typical of most relationships. Once these insecurity issues cross the line with uncalled for accusations, uncontrolled emotion, and constant scrutiny of your activities—then you probably have a problem. If your partner is overly concerned with you by constant phone calls, emails, or texting, then you have reason to be concerned. And if a partner turns into a more violent and accusing person that is obsessed with controlling the other partner, then there is another more serious problem that needs to be addressed.

If you are an overly possessive person who has jealousy issues, realize that jealousy has the power to destroy love—it has that strong potential to break up couples. Realize that if you want to keep your partner, you must take charge of your emotions. This is what may help save your relationship if you take control of your emotions. This also means make an appointment with a professional about your concerns and worries, and bring your partner with you if you wish. But take action to get control of the situation by promising your partner that you are willing to do what it takes to change your behavior. And take action to do it. If you love your partner, you will try to save your relationship.

If you are experiencing a jealous partner, let them know that trust and confidence in your love for each other is important to you. Tell them that to you, this is what love really is—not angry controlling behavior. If you still want to save the relationship, your main goal mutually is to make the relationship more secure, committed with trust and hope that you both can share together.

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