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How to Survive Long-distance Relationships


A long-distance relationship is hard. A lot of couples end up breaking apart within six months from the separation. However, that should not deter you from pursuing it, especially if you know that there are also ways to make it succeed.

It’s All about Communication

It doesn’t matter if it’s a long-distance relationship or not. You cannot allow the communication lines to crash. Otherwise, you will start to feel that you’re already growing apart. In communication you allow yourself to be known more by your partner in the same way you will have a better idea about his personality. You can also express your emotions, whether positive or negative, and get rid of any assumptions. It’s how you learn how to trust a person.

Thanks to technology there are already so many ways on how to stay connected. You have e-mails, mobile phones, instant messengers, and e-cards. You can also go old-fashioned with snail mails and telegrams.

Determine the Rules

A relationship with no rules is not a good relationship at all. Remember you want to get rid of assumptions. You don’t want your partner to think it’s okay for you if he tries to date other girls when you’re not around. On the other hand, you don’t want him to think that you can just decide on major things without seeking his advice.

Take time to develop the rules, and make sure that you can do them face to face. This way, you can get instant reactions, and all the guidelines are understood and fully agreed by both parties. What should you cover? As many things as you can. Are you allowed to see other people or not? How often should you see each other? When should you call each other?

Don’t Remove the Romance

It’s during the long-distance relationship that you should allow the romance to continue to bloom. You can still go on dates. You can take dinners together through a webcam. Surprise your partner with a greeting card or a singing telegram. Watch movies and then compare notes later on. Whisper sweet nothings. Leave a message on the answering machines—do anything to keep the passion alive.

Take care of yourself.

Guys are often attracted to women who are independent and confident. Prove to them that you are not clingy by taking care of yourself. Besides, having a great body and state of mind is the best way to surprise him when he sees you again.

You can also boost your level of confidence by utilizing subliminal messages. You can also use these subliminal messages to increase your trust and love for your partner even when he’s not around. Some of these subliminal messages can be the following:

I put my trust to my partner.
I can conquer the distance.
Distance doesn’t define my love and trust.

These subliminal messages can remove any worry or uncertainty you may be feeling about your relationship. They can get rid of the negative emotions and replace them with optimism.

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