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How To Have An Exciting First Date


Everyone’s nervous when it comes to the first date. It is in the first date that impressions are built. Whatever you say or do in this date will become a reference on whether or not there’s still a second date to anticipate. So in order to score that second date, you put your best foot forward and try to be impressive as much as possible.

There are so many questions that arise the day before the first date such as how should one act during the first date or what kind of dress should be worn. They may be harder to address as the tension and excitement starts to build up.

In order to have that smashing first date, one must remember certain standards. Here are some:

Be punctual
Being punctual is a sign of respect. Arriving at the place on time or earlier is a non-verbal sign that you are really interested to know him/her. On the other hand, arriving at the place later than the agreed time shows your lack of interest. You also want to feel comfortable at the ambiance of the place before your date arrives. This way, your focus is all on him/her.

Observe manners
If you’re a male, now is the perfect time to exhibit your gentlemanly acts. Pull the chair she’ll sit on or get the door before her. Such small acts show how you respect your date. If you’re a female, do not do acts that are inappropriate and might embarrass your date. Talk in a soft manner and avoid raising the volume.

Clean up
Most people disregard the physical appearance of their date as long as they clean up well. A good hygiene is really impressive. No person in their right mind would like to date a person who has hygiene issues right? Take a nice warm bath to clean up and relax.

Dress nicely
As follow up from the above mentioned item, dress in a way that is normally attractive and appropriate. Avoid wearing flashing clothing and accessories. Remember that dressing up is like a statement. Your choice of clothing pieces say a lot about your personality so better be careful in selecting them and putting them together.

Talk properly
Use language that is not offensive. As much as possible you want to keep your conversation on anything wholesome. Such topics will allow the both of you to share thoughts and exchange ideas.

Focus and concentrate
Put in mind that the objective in going out with someone is to know him/her better. How can you know something about him/her if you’re not giving your attention? Remember to listen to everything your date has to say. React once in a while without interrupting rudely.

Your first date may be a mixture of excitement and nerve-wracking. It may feel awkward in the beginning and may take a few minutes before getting used to. Bottom line is to be yourself and let him/her know who you really are. Also, have fun and enjoy the whole experience.

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