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How To Call A Girl To Set-up A Date


Congratulations if you are successful on getting her number. But that is not where the dating ends; it is only the beginning as we know it. Calling her also requires a little ingenuity because this is where you are discussing your possible date with her.

As soon as she gave you her number, the next thing you should say to her is the day you will call her to discuss things. Like for example, “Thanks, I will call you on Saturday”. Here, it is very important to let her know the day you are going to call but do not tell her the time. Do not be too specific so as not to keep her expecting. You will never know if you can call her at an exact time so just to be safe, only tell her the day you plan on calling her.

Already have a plan in mind before even calling her. Remember that calling her is not really about chatting things with her over the phone. You have to say your plans to her in no more than 15 minutes, maximum.

Introduction is also very important. When you call her, be sure you properly introduce yourself unless she knows it was you who’s calling. Make sure you also mention the last thing you talked about in person. For example, “You were great on stage, by the way.” If she mentioned something about her theater performance in school, make sure you mentioned about it through phone. This way, she remembers how you have her number as well as the last conversation you had with her.

Do not delay things over the phone. As soon as you introduced yourself and mentioned the last conversation you had, quickly tell her your plans. For example, “Well, I thought we can meet up this weekend probably 6pm at the park?” Wait for her response and this will tell you your next move. The following will likely occur:

1. She is not available on the time and date you suggested-
In this case, you should be ready to offer her another plan. But if

2. She is not available still-
Ask her what her suggestions are.

If she still is not available, just politely say, “It’s ok, maybe you can call me up when you finally come up with something”. Take note that girls give their numbers to guys even if they are not interested. So just accept it if things did not turn out right over the phone.

Other than this situation, there are still things than may happen along the way. One, she may not answer your call. Do not call her repeatedly or even leave multiple voicemails or texts. If she do not pick up the first time you call, just hang up and don’t leave a voicemail. Try calling here again the second time after 3-4 hours.

If your second call still has no answer, then is the time you leave her a voicemail. The voicemail should say about your unsuccessful call and that you are letting her know that you wanted to discuss about the date and will be calling her tomorrow. Do not let her call you instead let her know the day you will call again.

If you tried to call her again but did not pick up, just leave a voicemail saying you are calling and leave your number. This time, if she still did not call you back, she is not interested. Do not call her again or leave another voicemail, it will only make you seem like a stalker and a desperate guy.

If you are unsuccessful, just let it be and move on to another girl who you think will be interested in you. There are definitely other girls who deserve your attention. Remember that you are there to find someone worthy of your time. So just be confident and be calm on things. Soon you will find your perfect date.

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