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How to Avoid Bad Relationship Encounters


No one really wants to have a bad relationship. But as much as we wanted to avoid this, we always end up spending our love life miserable and unhappy. Because of this, we always ask ourselves if we really deserve to be in this state. As much as we wanted to bring the best out of us and be that person worth loving, things just do not happen the way we dreamed.

Most people do not know that having a healthy relationship starts in dating. When we date, we should look at the qualities and other things that will suit our needs as well as wants. These qualities should also, in one way or the other, jive in to our own character and traits.

Try to see and analyze both your positive and negative qualities and try to compare these qualities to the person you wanted to have relationship with. Most of the time, we are attracted to a person whose character and traits do no compliment ours. And that will definitely cause some problems over time. Therefore, it is essential to know your good and bad qualities so you can use these data well when looking forward to a person who can live up a lasting good relationship.

You should be able to see also the patterns in your past relationships. Ask yourself what causes the fights and misunderstandings. Are you the jealous type? Are you over protective?, etc. Try to balance and analyze which of these qualities are not healthy to building a good relationship. When you can look over these things, you can now know how to avoid and improve yourself better the next time you spend your time with someone new.

Take some time too to give yourself a break when you just came over a break-up. Bad relationships always root from people who recently had a break-up and went to a new relationship. Love is not about finding replacements to heal the past wounds. It is not really working if you push yourself to love someone new that instant. If you just broke-up with someone, make sure you had your time to heal and mend the wounds before entertaining someone new. It will be a lot easier to spend time with someone special when you are sure you got over with the past.

There are times a good relationship has turned sour and bad. This happens too. And if this is the case, you should be able to be strong and hopeful.

Communication is the best key to solving your love problems. Keeping a good conversation all the time with your partner helps you see and realize the things you need to look upon in the relationship as well as the factors that you have to change or develop.

The bottom line here is that you need to realize that there is no perfect relationship. But you all have the power to avoid a bad one. Just make sure that you know your strengths and weaknesses, learn to improve unwanted traits, and make sure you look for someone who can live up to your own character and traits. Balance everything and you will have one relationship that is not perfect but a very strong, lasting one.

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