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HIV Personals: The Advantages of Being Truthful


Sticking to the truth when writing your HIV personals profile is a must. What is the point in saying you are six foot rather than five six? No amount of wishing will add those extra inches. And how will you explain the loss of height when you meet your online partner face to face? Following a few simple musts when dating using HIV personals is crucial if you wish to eliminate any awkward first date meetings.

Honesty
They say honesty is the best policy and there is a reason why this saying is true. It is so simple to overstate the truth or imply things which are not quite right especially when you are trying to impress. This behaviour has no benefit however for then you have to undo the lies and fabrications and reveal the real you. This adds frustration and anxiety especially if you find yourself really liking the person you have been communicating with via the HIV personals dating site.

Humour
Following on from being honest you could mention your yet to improve qualities with a touch of humour. Everyone likes people who have a healthy attitude about life and who can see how their flaws are not the end of the world. The key is to turn your not so good qualities into something which others will smile at and not ridicule you for.

Trust
Relationships have to be built upon trust. So if you wish your online HIV personals relationship to develop face to face, then you have to build a relationship within solid foundations of truth and trust. For if you lie then why should anyone believe anything you say? How can one person tell which is the truth and which is the falsehood? So if you are looking for a long term relationship, make it easy for your partner to give their heart to you and be straight from the word go.

Have Confidence in Yourself
By speaking the truth and not enhancing details you will in fact show others that you respect not just them but yourself as well. You need to have a confidence in yourself and by acknowledging your challenges and weaknesses in a good way; you will show others that you are not hung up about your identity. This one thing alone will if continually done improve your personality and in time bolster your self-confidence.

Be Yourself
Differences are good, so never feel under any pressure to like the exact same interests as your online date. What is important is that you enjoy each other’s company and can have a good time when going out. So never feel intimidated to say you enjoy something if that is not the case. Approval will come from being an honest and likeable person, not from saying that you like things – which you don’t.

Many people have found true love using HIV personals. To ensure that you have a good chance of finding your perfect partner, make sure you are honest and upfront right from the start. It will make life much simpler if you do. If someone is adverse to the truth then they were not right for you in the first place, so move on. There are many new people logging into the HIV personals dating sites on a daily basis, and as long as you tell it as it is, it will not be long before you are happily looking forward to your first face to face meeting full of excitement and no worry!

This article is contributed by Alison Pullen from the HIVMatch Publishing Team. She works together with founders Richard and Nigel and writes dating/relationship articles. You can find more about HIV Personals and HIVMatch by visiting their website.

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