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No one ever perfected the art of dating, even for the casual daters. The success and failure of dating varies largely from your date, situation and time. But take note that whatever the outcome of your date is, the whole experience is a learning. You should take note to these experiences so the next time you take someone out on a date, you already know what to do.

But for the first time daters, here are a few pointers to help make your first date fun and memorable.

The first thing you should take note is how to enjoy the day with your date. It is advisable that both of you discuss the things you love and the places you would want to go to. Expressing your opinion about these things is planning on how to spend a good time on your date.

It may be awkward to go to a place you are not comfortable or eat on a restaurant that serves food you are allergic to eat. These things can be avoided if you are open with your date about how to spend both your special day together. Also, do not plan your date by watching movies. First dates should be about getting to know each other well. Watching movies is not a good idea for talk. Pick a place or activity that can open up good conversation.

And speaking about good conversation, what exactly are the things you should talk about on the first date? It would be best to read first before your date. Read the news, find interesting articles online, or research about the latest gossip or business ideas in magazines. These things may help you get started. You can share the things you read with your date. But if you do not have time to read, a good way to start a conversation is asking your date about what he/she did that day or what are his/her favorite things.

So you now got ideas on what to talk about and you cannot wait to share these with your date. However, remember that listening is part of a good conversation. Do not let yourself do the talking. You must also listen to your date. This way, it is not a one man’s show but a two-way conversation.

When it comes to dressing up for a date, the clothes you are going to wear should be appropriate to the place and activity you are going to go and do. But most of the times, comfortable and casual clothing can do for most occasions. Whatever you are planning to wear, take to mind that appearance attracts so make sure you rock by just your looks.

Being in time is also important and posts positive impressions on your date. Courtesy is always practiced in your entire date. Men should be gentlemen all the time. And women should not take long to prepare for their date and do not keep their men waiting.

First dates should be about a day full of fun. Do not bring in conversation about your problems or past relationships. This is not the time to share these thoughts. Just enjoy the day with that special someone.

At the end of the day, daters should at least give a notion to their dates whether they are attracted or not and whether there is still a second date. If your date is not interested to go out with you anymore, just be cool and thank him/her for the night.

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