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Getting Girls Means Playing it Cool


I am going to describe some of the worse possible scenarios that a guy can face when he approaches a woman he is attracted too and asks for her phone number or asks her out.

– You get slapped in the face

– You get screamed at and laughed at in front of a large crowd

– She throws her drink on you or spits at you

– Her boyfriend walks over and tries to attack you

Now how many times have any of these situations happened to you? You have probably never experienced any of these occurrences and the few guys that do just did not approach the woman in the right way. Most women are flattered too be hit on when the guy is respectful and compliments her. Getting girls means you have to know what women want to hear and how to impress them when asking them out.

Don’t get your signals crossed: Signals are everything and guys you have to know how to read them correctly to avoid putting yourself into an embarrassing situation. Eye contact is usually the first signal used to show attraction between the sexes. When you make a contact with a woman pay attention to what she does. If she holds your eye contact for a second, flirts with her eyes by blinking and looking coy, looks away and looks again she is sending signals that you should make a move. If you look into her eyes and she rolls her eyes at you or makes it a point to avoid your eye contact, take the hint and move on. If you approach a woman who is sending you a signal she is not interested she may get mad and decide to make a scene.

Don’t take it personal: When guys find out a woman is not interested in them, they get angry. A rejection is not personal after all she does not really know you and her rejection probably has very little to do with you. Often times the girl probably already has a boyfriend, or just is not in the move to talk to anyone. If you approach a woman and she turns you down do not blow up. When getting girls a calm attitude really pays off. Instead, tell her you are sorry you bothered her and be courteous; sometimes that kindness will make her rethink her attitude and could get you her phone number.

Flirt: Flirting is sexy, fun and a great way of breaking the ice with beautiful women. There are no big secrets to flirting, when getting girls guys should stick to what feels natural and try not to move too fast. Putting your hand on a woman’s inner thigh that you just met two minutes ago at the bar could get you slapped. A touch on the hand, arm or check is more appropriate. You can also choose to flirt with words. Saying her name in a sexy smooth voice, smiling into her eyes, allowing your arm to brush up against her body and leaning into her are great ways of flirting.

Laughter: Guys when getting girls it is not just important that you are able to make her laugh you should be able to laugh at yourself. Ever been laughed at when you asked a woman out before? If so, you probably stormed out upset and insulted or got red with embarrassment. However if you had stopped to think about how you approached her you might learn a little bit about why she laughed to prevent it from ever happening again.

Many times laughter is just nervous energy; women are hit on all the time, especially in clubs and bars. Her laugh may have had more to do with being hit on several times that night than on you. Another common reason for the laugh is the use of a lame pickup line. Though there are plenty of pick up lines that designed to be funny, a lame pickup line is one that you thought was funny, but just sounds corny. If you think the woman is laughing at you because of your pickup line don’t storm off, just play along. Apologize for the pickup line or come up with a few more on the spot she might enjoy herself enough to offer her phone number.

Whatever the reason for how a woman responds when you approach her, the next step is still up to you. When getting girls don’t get angry or loss your cool, be flexible and think of something funny or clever to do regardless of the situation.

buddy franklin is a dating advice guru. he recommends: get girls, getting girls, tips on how to get a girlfriend

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