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From Gathering Phone Numbers To That First Call For A Date


Men aren’t likely to understand that when a woman gives him her phone number that is it more than a simple acquiescence to his request, but an invitation to call her and usually and invitation to ask her out. So why on earth guys think that it is cool and shows her who wears the pants when he lets two or three weeks pass before actually calling.

By making sure that she knows that “you’re busy” and that you will get around to calling her on your time, you have given her the time she needs to cycle through a wide array of misconceptions to realize that she doesn’t need your sorry ass to call. Two to three weeks is a disrespectful amount of time to let slide by before using her phone number.

If you have managed to get her number after a very brief interlude, like a five minute conversation over the melons at the grocery store, two weeks is long enough for her to actually forget who you are when you finally call. Just because you want her to know that you’re busy you go and wait long enough that you have to jog her memory in order to get her to talk to you. At that point, after you embarrass yourself explaining who you are, she has already written you off and that tiny little spark of attraction that got her to hand over her phone number initially has been replaced with the understanding that you are irresponsible. She isn’t interested any longer.

If it was more than just a brief exchange that got her phone number in your hands and you went and waited two to three weeks before getting in touch with her, she went through a period the week before where she felt stupid and rather unattractive because obviously the exchange meant more to her then it did to you. Her feelings may or may not have been hurt, but she felt stupid and she has talked herself out of needing any kind of contact from a guy who can’t even be bothered to follow up his phone call promises.

But you wanted to get it across to her that you were busy. You didn’t want her to know that you have been hanging on your couch every night watching last years’ reruns on television waiting for enough time to pass before you could safely call her. While you were banging around on the couch did you consider the fact that you had said that you would give her a call. That sort of implied the next time you were around you would think of her. But hey, two’s a crowd on that bargain basement couch of yours anyway, right?

If you need to send the signal about how busy you are and how you don’t need to charge right to a phone when you finally score a phone number, then show her for day one and day. By day three or four you need to pick up that phone and call and let her know that you’re interested. It’s really that simple. She wouldn’t have given you her number if she didn’t want to hear from you again, soon.

Women don’t like to be forced into carrying the burden of the load in a relationship. If you drive it more than four days past her emotional response is one of having to carry the relationship. She isn’t into it and isn’t into you. So warm that couch cushion back up because once you have blown it, you have to get back to being busy.

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