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Five Signs He’s Cheating


I think almost every woman has had a time during a relationship where she suspected –or just feared– that her husband or boyfriend was cheating. And while you always want to get to the bottom of these kinds of feelings, you are probably reluctant to confront your boyfriend about it until your suspicions are mostly confirmed.

I’ve never been one to advocate snooping though another person’s personal property. If that’s you’re style, it’s one good way of getting clues about what your partner is up to when you’re not around. However, if (like me) you prefer to respect your partner’s boundaries, there are a few signs to look for that might give you the answers you’re looking for.

Looking for signs that your significant other is cheating? Below, you’ll find the five major signs that your man (or woman) might be cheating.

His attitude has changed. If he’s suddenly much moodier or more distant with you than he used to be, it may be a sign that something external has changed his feelings. If things have suddenly changed between you with little or no visible reason, it may be a warning sign.

He’s weird about his phone. Some people are always private about their personal possessions, like their phone or computer. But if your previously “no secrets between us” boyfriend acts strange and secretive every time his phone rings, or gets angry when you touch or pick up his cell, it may be a sign that he’s hiding something. Again, if this is normal behavior you might want to ignore it. But if it’s new, it might be time to worry.

He doesn’t talk to you about everything. Very few guys talk to their girlfriends about everything. But if your partner used to share a lot of his feelings and talk to you about a lot of what was happening in his life, and has stopped doing it, it might be time to worry. This is especially true if you’re internet dating. When having an online relationship, talk is all you have. If he stops telling you about things, it may very well mean that there are elements of his life that he doesn’t want you to scrutinize further.

He has “lost” time. In previous months, he used to show up at your apartment every day after work. Now he arrives two or three hours later more often than not. He may have excuses about what he was doing, but they don’t match up with what you know of the reality of his life. This is “lost” time– time that he cannot really account for, even though he tries.

He looks better. You know how you are when you meet somebody new. You put on your best clothes and your most expensive perfume. You do your hair and make-up to perfection. Maybe you even try to lose a bit of weight. Men do the same. If your previously sloppy boyfriend is suddenly doing sit-ups and wearing Ralph Lauren, it’s time to ask yourself why.

There are a hundred reasons why the things above might happen in a relationship. Perhaps your partner is experiencing stress at work or with family. Perhaps he’s simply unaware that his behavior has changed. Or perhaps he really is cheating. The truth is, even suspecting your partner of cheating is a symptom that your relationship has problems. So while you might be more than a little reluctant to come out and ask your boyfriend what he’s up to, you should bite the bullet and do it. Before you do, decide why you feel the way that you do– that way, if you’re wrong, you’ll both have a better idea of what needs to be fixed in your relationship.

this article was written by shawn wilson, a member of the customer support team at datepad, where internet dating is always free. datepad has a massive directory of informative dating articles along with a great list of dating site reviews on their dating blog.

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