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Finding Out If You Are Truly In Love


When you are in an relationship some times it can be hard to know whether you are in love or just blind. If you want to find out if you are really in love, sometimes you can just back off and see if you develop a change in the way you are feeling. It will not take that long to feel it when you are apart and you may not be in the kind of love you thought you were. When you are young, it happens all the time. Kids get crushes mixed up with love and think they think it is the real thing and most of the time it is not.

If you move to a different place and you are dating someone back where you used to live and you think you really love them, you could meet someone new and things might change. You start dating a new person and fall for them and then you will see easier that the person you left behind was not as important as you thought. It is not just young people that this happens too though by far. Older people can find themselves in this same situation where what they thought was real love, turned out to be just an infatuation that passed.

When you believe yourself truly in love with someone, sometimes you will not see things that are going on, things that can hurt you. Your friends and family tell you and you do not listen to them. This mean you are being what is referred to as blind because you do not want to hear it. After a while, you could start seeing things that people were telling you and you feel sick and then you wake up and start to think.

Then you can start seeing clearly, noticing everything that is going on. It can take a while for this to happen, it just depends on how long it takes you to snap out of it. Some time people who do not snap out of it fast enough wind up getting married and the problems start from there. You can have kids involved before you snap out of it and it will be harder to get away from those problems. When there is children involved, you will not be the only one to get hurt form the problems when the relationship crumbles. This is one very good reason why you should never move forward with a relationship when there are problems that need addressing first. It is usually better to end a relationship before it goes any further rather than get deeper involved and have to end it later.

You can go to seek professional advice from a counselor to see if you are really in love or not. Many times they will help you to sort out your feelings. You can do this even if you are not having a problem just to make sure to are feeling what you think you do. Relationships that are furthered when there is any doubt at all, will usually end up in trouble somewhere down the road. You always want to know for sure what you and the other party are truly feeling before you go any deeper.

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