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Do Not Say This On The First Date!


How to behave reasonably in general and what to talk in particular on the first date is a big concern for many girls and boys because the first date always makes them worried, even stressful. However, you do not have to worry much. If you have a good preparation in advance, you will have a wonderful date.

The following are what you should not say on your first date:

1. Asking about the ex

Her ex is a very sensitive matter. One day if your relationship goes further and if she wants to tell you about those things, she will. Never have the intention of asking about her ex on the first date if you do not want her to think that you are a very curious guy. Besides, matters relating to her ex may be what she does not want to remember because these make her sad. So, if you remind her about that, you may unintentionally hurt her and make her scared of love.

2. Asking about her income

Work is a common topic for conversation and it is also fine on the first date. But many guys make the mistake of asking about the salary. Salary or income is not a suitable topic for you to talk about on the first date. You can ask her about her work but just stop at asking on what she does, if she likes her job, etc. Asking about her income on the first date will make her think that you are not looking for a girlfriend but a person who can earn much money. No girl wants a fortune-hunter.

Talking about work seems to be very safe but it does not mean that there is no exception. In case you know that she has just graduated, be careful when asking about her job because she may not have found a job yet and is still unemployed. Being asked about work may make her uncomfortable.

3. Your troubles and your weak points

You think that telling her about your troubles and weak points on the first date will make her think that you are an honest guy and will be impressed by you? No, no, no! Never talk about them on your first date. Keep it until you and she become closer. On the first date, your biggest duty is to make her impressed so instead of telling her about your troubles, your weak points that make you less attractive in her eyes, express your strong points like ability to tell humorous stories.

4. Talking about your ex
OIn the first date, you should not ask her about her ex and you also should not tell her about your ex. This is your personal matter. Furthermore, talking about your ex may make her think that you have not forgotten your ex and are not ready for a new relationship.

5. Talking badly about other people

It is not what a polite boy usually does. When she hears you talk badly about another person, she may think that one day you will also talk badly about her with a another person.

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