As I write in many of my articles, a relationship is basically a desire and an agreement of two people to spend time together, have nice nights together and generally have a life together.

So in order to understand if a couple in a relationship indeed has a high level of compatibility, it is enough to talk about how both of partners see their common time together for the span of the relationship, let’s say a month, or a year or even more.

For example, David dates Luise and if this couple is compatible they would surely think of going to the films together which they both like, plan for vacations in places both would like to go, later, probably, plan to move and live together in a city and an area which both like or think suitable.

Do you see how it works? They talk about things they both agree and have plans to do things they both agree and dream of places and events they both agree are enjoyable and worthwhile.

So, in order to test your couple compatibility, all you have to do is to talk, I mean, really communicate about how would you see your time together in a week, a month, spending the nearest or even more far away holidays and if you are a daring couple, you might talk about a year or two ahead. You would talk about your life together, cats and dogs, house, children and so on.

I want to stop in this specific article on three interesting subjects: house, pets and children. Because I believe a real serious and successful relationship comes eventually to these three questions: where would we live, which pet if ever would we have and how many children would we want to have.

If you are not at the stage you would like to talk about children, it’s OK. Talk about pets now. I don’t compare children to pets, of course, but for younger people children might be way too serious a subject, while cats and dogs are certainly a funny and nice thing to discuss.

What about house? Even if you still don’t live together or even don’t plan to, you can describe a house you dream of. How would it look like, how many stories, how many rooms, should it have a pool, a garden, and so on.

It is a great pleasure even just imagining a house of your dreams. And if you and your partner both agree on your dreams and can work out a house of your future as you both would like to have, you are certainly communicating and thinking on the same wave!

The same about pets – which pet would you like to have together. I know that when a pair wants to have a dog and both of partners admire and love dogs, that really gets them closer to each other and they have always what to talk about. The same, of course, applies to cat.

On the contrary if one just loves dogs and another hates them but would rather have a cat, it could be a subject for an argument or two, so try to solve this compatibility issue before it becomes a problem.

And the last one here are the children if you have a mature enough relationship to come to the subject. You, of course, can talk about how many children would you like to have together and when.

Discussing the subjects I brought up here, your relationship compatibility would be much more clear and can also be dramatically improved.

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