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Building Communication Skills Early in the Relationship


Life and its many trials are hard, it has to be, if it weren’t the easy things in life wouldn’t be any fun. Relationships unfortunately fall into the hard category, and rather on the rougher side of it as well. A relationship is an extremely hard thing to find, especially in this day, people constantly changing who they think they want to be and always looking for someone that is likely right beside them. In any relationship communication is key to fully understanding each other, and if one wishes to romantically pursue someone it is not only key but is quintessential to it succeeding in any way. One must be able to hear what a person is feeling by simply listening to them, but must be able to respond, listening is not just the act of hearing, and it is the first step to building communication skills, especially in the first moments. First impressions are built up to make or break everything, while this is true to a certain extent it does really mean nothing, someone can be easily impressed in an evening and then find out they have got involved with a self centered loser, or the opposite could meet someone and barely think twice about them but over a few other encounters might notice a genuine care given to what one has to say. Communication skills are really the only important thing in a relationship.

Any person on the planet can essentially attract any other person on the planet, all one has to do is pay attention to what a person has to say and genuinely care about it. If one feels cared about on an emotional level they will feel that same emotion back, it is nature and many in fact believe it to be scientific fact. If taking into account that everything is composed of atoms and energy, those things have no “barriers,” such as clothes, or distance, or even bodies. Emotion is an electric impulse traveling through your brain; this energy is propelled out of you into the people around you, especially people you are directly interacting with. This is how conversations can just grow rapidly, that feeling like you’ve known each other for a long time already, an energetic reaction is actually happening there and true communication is a brilliant display of emotional exchange. Having an intimate connection like this is crucial to a relationship and really all depends on the act of listening.

One must be selfless but that is not to say one must remove ones self, this would be counter productive. A conversation can only happen with two or more people and for all to benefit from it all must be paying attention to it, and that means adding to it. One must hear what others have to say and respond in their own personal way, while still understanding what is being said. Communication skills are necessary to develop a relationship with anyone on any level and trying to get to know a person by talking about your past and listening to stories about theirs is the first steps to doing so, all one must do is care and they shall be cared about in return.

Christine Crotts believes that a good long hike is what is needed to get her life in order when things get too busy. Christine has written a site containing reviews on Vasque hiking boots, as well as the mens hiking boots.

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