Welcome, visitor! [ Register | Loginrss

Breakup Recovery: From a Broken Glass to a Beautiful Glass


You have been through this before, you got dumped for someone better (or so they think) and you spend your days listening to sad love songs that you almost believed that song was made just for you. No one can blame you. Everyone knows that a broken arm can toil but never a broken heart. They understand you but they also know that you need to make a breakup recovery – fast!

Remember that you may have made your ex your life and all but other’s life depend on you as well. Move on because life does not end when you stop living your life. The common mistake that you would make is to wallow in self – pity and make everything about yourself. You miss out a great deal of what life has to offer you. Sometimes, a relationship has to end to give way for something better. Your ex might have replaced you with someone better because maybe your ex is not the best for you. How do you move on? How do you get your life back?

• Be honest about your emotions and feelings. Accept that you may have made mistakes and believe that you can be better. Changing yourself does not mean you have to change to how your former flame wanted you to be.

• Think of the reason why the two of you fell out. List the reasons why your ex is not the one for you.

• Allow yourself to cry. Set aside an hour to mourn over a lost love afterwards, wipes your tears, freshen up and do something productive.

• Collect everything your ex has given you. Put them in a box then store them away. Refrain from displaying things that bring back good memories.

• Confront the situation you are in by doing the things you normally do together – alone.

• Reconnect with your friends. Talk to them, their insights, however painful, will help you in your process of breakup recovery. They may have a better view of the situation.

• Do some jogging and exercise. The endorphins will help you feel better. You will look better and this would be your sweet revenge. Make your ex regret dumping you.

• Write your feelings. Be creative. Write poetry, short stories, or even songs. This will keep you pre-occupied and will help you see clearer why the relationship did not work. Keep moving forward, the more you do this, the less it would hurt.

• Meet other people but never enter into a rebound relationship. You might get yourself hurt again.

• Don’t be too hard on yourself. Let go of your fears and open your heart. Be ready to fall in love again.

• Look in the mirror and smile. It will help you take a more positive outlook in life.

No formula can make your breakup recovery happen overnight. May be it had to happen to you. Remember, a glass has to be broken to make a beautiful glass vase.

http://www.w3schools.com/htmIf you want tips on breakup recovery, visit http://www.relationshipmaestro.com/get-your-ex-back-free-course.html for your FREE report!/html_links.asp

Related posts:

  1. Breakup City USA: Places in Your City That Will Mend Your … Let’s face it: breakups suck. And no matter how many times you hear yourself or others saying, “oh honey, it was for the best,” your heart still feels the constant pangs of the loss of your romantic relationship. Especially in the first few weeks of your relationship’s disintegration. And what do we usually do when […]…
  2. How to Start Recovering from a Broken Heart If your heart is breaking because of lost love, if you’ve been betrayed, abandoned, “dumped”, or you know you must leave a relationship because of abuse, you certainly are not alone. Relationships coming to an end is common. Even if we look only at divorce rates, “50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second, and […]…
  3. Surviving A Breakup – 4 Rarely Used Actions For … During the process of surviving a breakup almost inexplicably shock-waves can rip through you both physically and mentally, causing very uneasy feelings in your heart, mind and spirit. It really stinks! Unfortunately, many turn towards acts of self-destruction such as drugs, alcohol and plotting revenge to deal with their pain. That is not the way […]…
  4. Fixing A Broken Relationship – Things You Must … Relationships are indeed not always happy, and sometimes, it may end up in misunderstandings and at some point, it may lead to breakups. Especially if you think the relationship is worth saving, you can still find ways to make it work the second time around, and you can find a number of ways in fixing […]…
  5. How to Undo a Breakup and Makeup With Your Ex-lover If only computer commands like “ctrl-alt-del” or “ctrl-z” is applicable to human life, then getting back with your ex is effortless and nobody will dare ask themselves on how to undo a breakup. But as everybody knows, life doesn’t work that way. When a breakup already happened, both of you could be struggling to get […]…
  6. Stop Your Breakup Today to Start a Lifetime of Love Breakups with boyfriends and husbands are one of the most emotionally draining and physically exhausting ordeals women go through. We’ve all been there – the endless tears, sleepless nights, obsessive thoughts, overwhelming depression. If you’re in the middle of a breakup now, you know all too well how the end of a relationship affects every […]…
  7. How To Stop A Breakup – 3 Immediate 911 Actions To … Making the determination on how to stop a breakup is not always a black and white simple to answer question, because as you are fully aware there could be a wide range of reasons of why and how the relationship got to the breaking point in the first place. With that being said, I will […]…
  8. How You Can Mend a Broken Heart A broken heart is a very upsetting thing to deal with. I think we’ve all had a broken heart at one time or another. But while a broken heart is painful, it can be healed and fixed. You need to give a broken heart TLC (tender loving care) and also to be conscious of the […]…
  9. How to Get Ex-Girlfriend Back After a Breakup Breaking up with your girlfriend, especially the one whom you truly love can be a very heart wrenching experience for most guys. Especially more so if the guy was the one being dumped. Whatever the state of emotion that you are going through, do understand that couples do break up all the time and the […]…
  10. Ten Ways to Get Over a Breakup or Past Relationship So many people as me how to get over a breakup. They want to know how to stop obsessing over the ex-boyfriend or lover and get on with their life. This topic seems to be the most asked question in my work. Here are some easy tips to help you get over the one that […]…

46 total views, 1 so far today

  


Listed: April 28, 2012 12:03 pm