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Belief Makes The World Go Round Especially Relationships


Did you ever see a woman that you found almost intoxicatingly attractive and you really didn’t know why? She was certainly attractive enough, but she wasn’t cover girl material either. You found that you were truly involved in watching her, noticing her movements, her motion, and the way she looked at people when they spoke to her. In fact, it was those kinds of women that they decided love at first sight really existed for.

But it didn’t make sense. Maybe she wasn’t stick thin and maybe she didn’t have perfect teeth or perfect skin but she was glowing with beauty. What you witnessed, and were perfectly taken in by, is the beauty that comes from deep within that truly creates the beauty on the outside. Not everyone has this and most drop dead gorgeous hotties don’t have it. This is something different and it is something you should pay attention to because you can do that too.

The difference between you and her is that she really truly loves herself and believes that she is an incredible beauty all the way through. She isn’t hung up on small details and she is perfectly accepting of less than perfect. That inner confidence she radiates is mesmerizing. And she probably had to learn to do it at one point in her life. Women who are born with total and complete beauty, never get a zit, and are a perpetual size two generally aren’t challenged into finding their inner spirit of love like that until much later in life.

If you want women to look at you the same way that you looked at her, then you need to go deep my friend and you need to find out how to believe that you are absolutely an incredible and amazing guy. What you believe about yourself comes through the same way it does for women. Women have had a lifetime of really serious competition. Everything from their hair to their skin to their clothes to their breasts to their intelligence, sense of humor, and basic value in the world has been judged very harshly not only by men, but my other women as well.

Since they were old enough to compare their undies with flowers on the playground they were being put into categories by their friends. Women who have accepted themselves and know that they are beautiful all the way through are able to radiate a beauty that far outweighs the beauty given off by models and movie stars. If you want that type of attraction in your life then you have to work on your beliefs about you.

It seems like a huge undertaking, but happier people are definitely more beautiful people. It might take a little time and you might need to stop and think it through a little here and there, but you have the capacity to radiate that same type of amazing attractive power simply by believing that you can.

Some guys spend thousands upon thousands of dollars to go to self help meetings and get into therapy. If that is what works for you then go for it. If it doesn’t find a way to replace your hang ups with positive beliefs and then watch the results happen. Self acceptance doesn’t mean that you stop caring about what you look like or you let yourself go to crap. It actually has the opposite effect of showing you where you need to spend some time on yourself and how to nurture your body differently so that you look better.

And once you learn how to do all this while truly and honestly believing that you are the number one catch of the year, things are going to change for you. What’s really cool, is that as they change the changes will be nice, but your esteem won’t depend on them and you won’t turn into a cocky jerk. You will simply be more approachable and more desirable and you will feel a lot better about who you are no matter what happens.

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