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A Checklist For You If you Decide to Make Up With Your Ex …


Your heart is broken and you cannot stop thinking of your ex. You miss your ex so desperately, and you will do just about anything to win your partner back.

You believe the two of you are soul mates, destined to be together and for whatever reason you broke apart, you genuinely believe that you really can repair what is broken and strengthen the love you once shared.

Despite the reasons why you split up, whether it involved infidelity, lies, mistrust or you simply grew apart, there are ways of reuniting with your ex, and not only moving forward but reversing the damage that is been caused so that you are able to fall in love with each other all over again.

Time changes all of us, and for many couples who have been together for a long time, they fail to recognize just how important their partner is to them until it is too late.

We take people for granted, assuming they will always be there for us and when they up and leave, we panic, scramble and realize exactly what we lost, and how important they really were to us.

Just know that there is still hope, and if you are dedicated to repairing your relationship, you CAN make it happen.

If it is full speed ahead for you and your ex, both parties need to check themselves. There are things that should have been resolved prior to you guys getting back together. Here are some things that you need to do before you rebuild that commitment again:

1) If your relationship was wavering, you and your ex need to make sure that this time around the outcome will be different. Both of you have to make changes in order for the relationship to work and grow.

2) You and your ex have learned what to do and what not to do from your previous relationship. The mistakes that were made back then are history. You have realized that you cannot do the same things again.

3) Any problems that both of you had with each other have been resolved. Those issues will not or should not come up again. It is important to hash out the past before moving on to the future.

4) Both parties must be willing to give and take. It cannot be one person always giving and the other one always taking. There has to be a balance. Also, there will be times when you have to compromise, even though you may not want to.

5) Both parties will need to agree to disagree. It is obvious that you are not going to agree on everything, but you can agree to disagree. Doing that will give both of you a peace of mind.

6) You and your ex both know what you want out of the relationship. You have sat and talked with each other extensively. You know the habits of each other, what makes you alike as well as what makes you different and you are willing to accept that.

7) You do not have to be around each other all of the time. Even in a relationship, you still need space. If you do not one of you may start feeling needy. Or one of you may start feeling cramped.

8) Move on from past mistakes. Both of you are looking for a fresh start, so what better way to do it than to move forward? Looking back in the past just keeps you behind. You cannot move forward if you are always dwelling on what happened before, especially if it was negative.

9) You have confidence that the relationship will work. You and your lover can work together to iron out any differences that you may have.

You have genuine respect for each other. Neither of you is about disrespecting the other in any way. Be able to be affectionate toward your ex again. This is one of the main parts of getting back together. There has to be genuine love and care for each other. Do not just get back together because of the intimacy and the lovemaking that you miss so much. Remove any jealousy or envy from your relationship.

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