Welcome, visitor! [ Register | Loginrss

6 Top Dating Secrets For Men: Online Or Offline

There are thousands of “How to’s” to get Miss Right. Despite that availability of advice, more men are desperate to find someone to love.

Men have a different psychological make up, as compared to women. Their emotional build is directly related to physical attractions. Due to their focus on physical attraction, sometimes they are too aggressive even in their dating lives. Their aggressiveness may signal a negative behavior that concerns most women.

Those men who are aggressive in a dating situation are more likely to be disappointed later, when she refuses to return his phone calls. Disappointments may lead to depression and low self-esteem, which frequently leads to even worse behavior by those fellows looking for love.

Many men look for Ms. Right at the office, church, school, in their neighborhood, or on the Internet. The following tips may help you attract and keep the woman of your dreams:

1. Keep it cool

If you like a woman, do not be too forward. Girls usually become more defensive when a man is really aggressive. Even if she likes you, she will never respond positively to overt aggression. As to online dating, never say that you love or want to marry the girl too soon. Women are smart. (Guys have seen this from “women” too.) Many have learned that the person who jumps too quickly to love or marriage is likely a con man or con woman looking to make a score, or someone who is simply desperate, which frequently indicates that there is a good reason why that person is still alone.

2. Take time

Girls prefer if a man is sincere and genuine. Girls’ sense if a man is hypocritical and egoistic. There may be attraction during the first meeting, but you should value the respect that you can give and she expects. Listen to what her sentiments are. Ask questions that would make her feel important. Be interested. Be real.

3. Look beyond the packaging

Do not look at women as somebody who will fulfil your physical needs only. Women want to be accepted as they are first, and as they could be in the future. Women are rightfully wary of men who are keen to take advantage. Women must protect themselves from a world full of dangerous people. Women naturally seek a relationship, rather than a roll in the hay, and a relationship requires respect going two ways, from you-to-her and her-to-you.

4. You only have one chance to make a good first impression

When you have finally agreed to meet physically for a traditional date or a casual one, give a good impression. NEVER wear a sloppy outfit, let alone wear slippers to your date. Women will generally spend a lot of time getting ready for a date; in fact, they might have even gone to beauty shop to get their hair done earlier in the day. If she took great care to fix herself up for you, and you did not take any time to prepare yourself for her, she will be insulted. This does not mean that you can never be yourself on that first date, but if you want to leave her with a good impression, you should invest in yourself as much as what she will invest in herself.

5. Be caring

The one thing that would make a woman think about you the whole night after your date is when you successfully made her believe and sense that she was in your mind the whole time you were together. Stories and thoughts that revolve around your discussion should be focused on her most of the time. Of course, kindhearted women will initiate to change topics and know more about you as well. Just be careful not to talk about yourself too much. Once you take the time to understand that everyone’s favorite topic is his or her self, then you will find yourself prepared to talk about her favorite topic, leaving her with the impression that you care more about her than you.

6. Be creative and exciting

The last thing women will want you to be is boring. If you are, the woman’s mind will wander to other things more interesting than you. She might think that her time was better spent feeding the dog than talking to you. Be creative. Be spontaneous. Make the girl happy. Remember again that she might just appreciate you more, when you have actually invested more into your date with her than any other man has ever done with her.

The best way to get a woman’s favor whether online or in person is to see how she sees things without compromising your own perceptions and values as well. Be a man. Be brave enough that to care for the woman and show respect to her. Show her how you can look outside of yourself to put the importance and focus on her and your relationship with her.

want to register your free membership?clarence lee has been providing free online dating services to the public for years. his dating legend website offers singles personals and different free adult dating services to its usa, european and asian members.register easy now=> http://www.datinglegend.com

Related posts:

  1. The Top Three Online Dating Tips Dating online isn’t quite like dating in person. But, as with any sort of dating, the ultimate goal is lifetime love. Online dating takes away a few of the elements of in-person dating. One is the blind date. This is the necessary result of any response to a newspaper personal ad. There may be a […]…
  2. 8 Minute Dating Secrets 8 minute dating is beneficial to singles who don’t have time to look for possible dating candidates and to actually schedule a date. Being able to know 8 different people in one night, and actually talk to them is time saving and effective. Once you are all set to sign up with an 8 minute […]…
  3. When Can You Take Your Disabled Romance Offline? For a disabled person who is thrilled about all the preferences they have through online dating romance service sites, there is a foreseeable question: when is the right time to meet their potential date offline? Where should they meet them? When you get to know a person in the cyber world, for what time period […]…
  4. How to Get a Girl to Like You-Secrets You Must Know! How to get a girl to like you? It is simple. Have lots of money, drive a hot car, and be powerful. Now most would think that this is an absolute but ask most women and they will say that money and power is not everything. Well, yeah, you can see a lot of rich […]…
  5. Dating For The Disabled In U.K – Tips For Your First … There are many disabled people in the world, including the UK, and like everyone else they are also interested in online disabled dating. First dates are hard on any of us but the anxiety perhaps increases for those who suffer from any kind of disability. But with the large number of dating sites available today, […]…
  6. Dating Relationship Statistics-The Cold Hard Facts About … Men and women both have their own standards when it comes to dating. No matter where they are located at, there seems to be a constant pattern that evolves in the dating arena. In general, most men and women are really greatly interested in someone extraordinary that they can be with and spend their life […]…
  7. Seduction Secrets From A Jerk You have seen it time and time again jerks treating women poorly and incredibly their women stay loyal and love them for it. In fact you see it so many times you wonder how they get away with it and secretly you envy them. Again and again you see your friends treating her like a […]…
  8. Speed Dating.Online dating.Russian Speed Dating 4 men … Russian Speed Dating.Arrange Russian women meetings.Speed Dating beautiful single women in Russia. Speed dating process:visit Russia,date russian women girls….
  9. The Best Way To Find Love Is Through The Top Online Dating … There is no doubt that whilst people are finding more pressure to find their true love or partner that the demands of daily life are making it more difficult to find the time to meet new people and forge relationships. It is not easy being single these days and it is fair to say that […]…
  10. Hot Internet Dating Success For Men Almost any single person, male or female, loves internet dating sites because they allow a person to go window shopping for a partner and see all that is available before they commit. A lot of people who join, especially as free members, just look at the pictures! In fact, there is often no point writing […]…

252 total views, 1 so far today


Listed: September 19, 2008 12:08 pm