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6 Easy Tips to Get Rid of Your Shyness


To get rid of your shyness, you must address three different factors, namely your mindset in dating, your comfort around women, and your conversation skills. Here are six crucial secrets to help you out with these dating factors, and finally get the confidence you need to turn women on…

Six Methods to Effortlessly Get Rid of Your Shyness

1. Improve your self-image

Regardless of how many girls say you’re not bad looking, if you really feel that way, you will forever be playing a self-defeating mantra inside your mind every time you approach women. To overcome this, you must improve the way you see yourself. This means you must focus on your strengths and downplay your weaknesses. Here’s a good example to illustrate this point. You know you’re not the athletic type so you probably will never look like all those men with ripped abs and big muscles. However, you know you can get fit even without killing yourself to get the ripped look. Not being able to master a sport should not keep you from working out. By going to the gym every now and then, you’re toning your body so that you will look like an athlete even if you’re not into sports. If you do something for yourself to improve the way you see yourself, you will get rid of your shyness around women faster.

2. Self Validate

If you’ve ever said the line “do you think I’m cute” or “do you like me” to a woman you just met, listen up. You may be committing one of the biggest mistakes in dating. The fact is, if you try too hard to gain a girl’s approval, your words and your actions will show this neediness. Needless to say, women find this desperation repulsive. The really confident guys around are those who can ‘hold their own’ even with all the other men around who may be better-looking or richer, These men have learned how to self-validate.

3. Practice Approaching Women

Go to places where there are women and approach some of them for any reason at all. You can ask for the time, for directions, or for suggestions (if you’re in a bookstore or a food shop). It doesn’t matter what you talk to them about, what’s important is that you’re practicing how to approach women.

4. Control Your Body Language

One time I watched a guy deliver his Toastmasters speech and I found myself thinking “hey this guy isn’t nervous at all”. Boy, was I wrong. He was actually very nervous but he did not let it show, or so he told me after I asked for public speaking tips after his speech. He learned how to control his body language so that anyone watching him closely will never know of it. So, with that said, if you ever feel your hands shaking while talking to women, shove it inside your pocket until you get a grip of your emotions. When you regain control, you can take it out again.

5. Clear your throat

This is the easiest way to cure shyness. Clear your throat and just speak. Even if it’s just a greeting, you will manage to get a word out and the rest will be easy.

6. Be around women

This is the most basic thing you have to do to get used to having women around you and busting your shy attitude once and for all. Go to a cooking club and learn how to cook. Even if the women around you are not necessarily your type, you will still be able to build rapport with women, which is the important thing.

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