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5 Top Ways to Get Back at Your Ex


Relationships can be very fragile and need to be maintained and built up in order to keep them healthy and allow them to grow. Unfortunately, people do break up and a break up can be extremely devastating and emotionally draining.

If you have just broken up with your ex, you may be considering getting back at your ex. But before you start doing anything, it is always a good idea to think twice. Do you really believe that this is the best step to take? Perhaps, a better approach to get back at your ex is to place your ex in an interesting predicament. This may help you save your relationship by showing him or her how important you are to them.

Let us go through 5 tips below. Not only are these tips excellent for getting back at your ex, they are also great for winning back your ex as well.

1) Being strong. Nobody like to stay close to someone who is desperate, especially in a relationship that has just broken up. You must not beg, cling or show any sign of neediness in front of your ex. That will only drive him or her further away. Instead, you want to show your ex that you are living okay even without the company of your ex. Once you have “moved on”, you ex may then realized that he or she has not.

2) Cut off communication if possible. Cutting off contact with your ex may seems like a very unconventional and counter intuitive move especially when your objective is to get back together with your ex. However, this can be on of your most important steps to take. Why is that so? Well, the benefit of cutting off contact with your ex is that it will give your ex enough time to think about the relationship and realize how important you are to him or her.

3) Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.

4) Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.

5) Just be yourself. There was probably a good reason or two why you and your ex fell in love with each other in the first place. So, go back to being yourself and your ex may start to recall why they fell in love with you in the first place.

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