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4 Simple Dating Tips For The Shy Ones


Have you always been the shy type? Have you always felt that you were attractive but just kept on hiding in your cocoon? Have you always had problems with your self confidence? Have these issues been hampering your way from scoring a date? If yes, then pay attention. Here are some tips that will help you get the date you have always wanted to experience.

First of the 4 dating tips: Get out of your shell! Be more confident. You do not have to be the most attractive person in the world. You do not have to be as gorgeous as Brad Pitt or George Clooney or as hot as Gisele Bundchen on Angelina Jolie to score a date. All you have to do is know what your strengths and assets are. You can use them to your advantage. Do not be negative, as your negativity towards others is a manifestation of your insecurities to yourself. Also, know where to draw the line between confidence and arrogance. Confidence brings people close to you, while arrogance (especially when baseless) can only repel people.

Second of the 4 dating tips: Go out. You will definitely not score a date if you will just stay home and do nothing. So unless your prospects are inside your house or in the same building, you better look for places where you can find a date. It is always best to look at the places you frequent or places that interest you. That way, you are almost sure that your possible date is also interested in the things that you find appealing. If you are into sports, you can get a date at live basketball or baseball venue. If you are into the arts, then you can probably find your possible special someone at a museum.

If you are into movies, then you can go search in film festivals for a prospect. It is also advisable to go to malls and restaurants to find a date. Those places are packed with people every time. You are guaranteed that you will find a person you will like in those places. If, for some reason, you are not into the serious relationship kind of thing, then you can check out the bars and clubs near you. You will most probably get a date or even some action from those places.

Third of the 4 dating tips: Timing means a lot. You should know how to read the signs. If a boy or a girl has a wedding or engagement ring on his or her finger, then you can stay out of things. If you think he or she is with someone, then you can just not enter the picture. If you think he or she is in a bad mood, then stay out, lest you want to just be ignored or worse, be humiliated. But if you feel like you are someone who can turn his or her frown to a smile, then go ahead.

Final dating tip: Cliche pickup lines no longer work! It is the new millennium. If you do not want to be the butt of jokes of the person you want to date, then stay away from being cheesy. Go straight to the point, but be courteous and be sincere.

These tips may be hard to follow for some people. But if you really like your prospects, then for sure, you will not mind going the extra mile.

rodrigo rehn is a relationships expert, linux systems administrator, web programmer, php developer and ceo of faceromance online dating for singles.

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